Moving abroad has been an absolute whirlwind of an experience. There have been highs and lows, and many tears shed throughout this process. I’d be lying to say that it doesn’t have its negatives, but it also comes with a multitude of positives – that have far exceeded my expectations.
Experiencing a new culture
It’s really interesting to see how people live, the different routines people have, and how family life differs between countries. The way we live is moulded by our culture and it’s been really eye opening to observe how family life here differs to England. One big difference I’ve noticed is that children’s bedtime tends to be much later here. I’m not sure if that’s specific to our area, or America in general, but our girls go to bed earlier than the other kids on our block.
Meeting new people
Making new friends is always fun. However, I found that since we had a pretty established friendship group back home, I didn’t push the boundaries and meet new people often. I’ve really enjoyed pushing myself out of my comfort zone to meet new people, and make friends, both in person, and online.
The weather
I’m pretty certain it rains 99% of the time in England, and the 1% when it’s not raining can be a little sucky since Europe doesn’t have air conditioning. So if it’s hot, you’re going to be uncomfortably hot. Whereas here it’s really nice to experience hot weather, and be cool when you want to be, haha. Whilst it rains here too, it feels like there’s a big downpour, and then it’s over and done with, compared to the constant mizzle that afflicts England.
New perspective on home country
One of the things I expected least, and yet really enjoy, is how my view on England has changed. I have more appreciation for the little things I often took for granted back home, such as good cheese, having local facilities within walking distance, and not having to consider a time difference before ringing my parents. Some of the stuff that I found really frustrating, probably wouldn’t bother me now, because I’m able to view it differently. I’ve never been ashamed of being from England, but I definitely have a new sense of pride for where I come from.
Personal growth
Moving abroad is tough, it requires a lot of strength; physically, mentally, and emotionally. I’ve learnt things about myself that I never knew, and have grown in many ways. I’ve had a myriad of different situations thrown at me that despite not always knowing how to handle, I’ve managed to. I definitely feel stronger as a person having moved abroad.
Different foods
Okay, so it’s not like England and America are worlds apart in terms of what food is available. However, the meals differ, and there’s things available in England that aren’t here, and vice versa. It’s been interesting learning to cook with ingredients that aren’t the same, and trying meals, and other foods that we don’t get back home, or just don’t traditionally make. Such as meatloaf, Philly cheese steak, and ranch (in every form available).
Adventure
It’s exciting to move, to experience new things, and to have the thrill of doing something out of the ordinary. Not to mention having new places to explore at your fingertips.
Knowledge
As the proverb says: every day is a school day. Whilst this is true for everyone, I believe it hits home even more when you move abroad (especially in the early days). I’ve learnt so much about America that I never would have otherwise. Everyday I learn something new, this could be anything from the country’s history, to its culture.
Opportunities/experiences for your children (if you have them)
We always wanted to take the girls on holiday to America, but we weren’t planning to do it for a long time. The move has accelerated our timeline for visiting, and has enabled us to bring them to explore lots of amazing places, that are now within driving distance. It’s also provided a good opportunity to discuss different currencies, time differences, and languages more in depth with the girls.
Self appreciation and pride
This move has been hard, and there was a huge amount to deal with. But I did it (with the help of James of course), I’ve overcome a lot of difficult situations, and emotional struggles, and I’m proud of myself for that. I know there will continue to be things that pop up that I’ll have to cope with, and I have confidence in myself to tackle whatever I have to in the future.
I’m sure this list will continue to grow and evolve over time, as it’s still early days.
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